RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011

[james]

So who in this thread is in a stable relationship, anyone?

Two years next month for me.

The secret is to do the opposite of whatever garbage Himu is vomiting onto these pages

[benjipwns]

Unfortunately Pearly Things has taken a dip and although the discussions are great but the host has a myriad of problems and is obviously a grifter.

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Weird comment, as if it's supposed to be insightful and totally not circle jerk-y.

Since you're talking about grifters, I'll put it this way: life coaches are maybe peak grifter.

[BIONIC]

It’s okay, Himu’s mind is not easily swayed.

[Mupepe]

So who in this thread is in a stable relationship, anyone?

Been married for 14 years. But I don’t think I count because I don’t participate, only read this thread. And y’all are nuts by the way.

[Himu]

Unfortunately Pearly Things has taken a dip and although the discussions are great but the host has a myriad of problems and is obviously a grifter.

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Weird comment, as if it's supposed to be insightful and totally not circle jerk-y.

Since you're talking about grifters, I'll put it this way: life coaches are maybe peak grifter.

All advice is bad and not worth looking into because "GRIFTER!!!!" is funny especially when many men all the say the same thing. It's just lazy internet speak to label someone as anathema just  because you don't like them. This person is a "life coach" and has hundreds of videos available for free. Even if their takes are measured and balanced they're not worth looking into because "GRIFT!" You've essentially said jack shit while thinking you're smart and pointing out absolutely nothing.

[benjipwns]

Unfortunately Pearly Things has taken a dip and although the discussions are great but the host has a myriad of problems and is obviously a grifter.

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Weird comment, as if it's supposed to be insightful and totally not circle jerk-y.

Since you're talking about grifters, I'll put it this way: life coaches are maybe peak grifter.

All advice is bad and not worth looking into because "GRIFTER!!!!" is funny especially when many men all the say the same thing. It's just lazy internet speak to label someone as anathema just  because you don't like them. This person is a "life coach" and has hundreds of videos available for free. Even if their takes are measured and balanced they're not worth looking into because "GRIFT!" You've essentially said jack shit while thinking you're smart and pointing out absolutely nothing.

I'm seriously starting to wonder how well you can read, you're the one who used the term grifter. I was using your language to communicate with you.

A life coach, any life coach, is a scam artist. This guy doesn't even list his pre-age-35 experience other than his shitty seven year "business" degree. His credentials are jack and shit and he's operating a scam based around his non-existent credentials. No, I'm not going to watch a hundred half hour long videos from a fucking life coach just because he reinforces your biases. I'm not going to watch any of these insufferable talking head "essayists" no matter how right they may be about a single thing in their hours of footage, it's absolute lunacy, why in god's name would I do it for a life coach of all people. I already know how to scam people if I wanted to. (I don't because this is morally and ethically wrong.)

[Himu]

Unfortunately Pearly Things has taken a dip and although the discussions are great but the host has a myriad of problems and is obviously a grifter.

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Weird comment, as if it's supposed to be insightful and totally not circle jerk-y.

Since you're talking about grifters, I'll put it this way: life coaches are maybe peak grifter.

All advice is bad and not worth looking into because "GRIFTER!!!!" is funny especially when many men all the say the same thing. It's just lazy internet speak to label someone as anathema just  because you don't like them. This person is a "life coach" and has hundreds of videos available for free. Even if their takes are measured and balanced they're not worth looking into because "GRIFT!" You've essentially said jack shit while thinking you're smart and pointing out absolutely nothing.

I'm seriously starting to wonder how well you can read, you're the one who used the term grifter. I was using your language to communicate with you.

A life coach, any life coach, is a scam artist. This guy doesn't even list his pre-age-35 experience other than his shitty seven year "business" degree. His credentials are jack and shit and he's operating a scam based around his non-existent credentials. No, I'm not going to watch a hundred half hour long videos from a fucking life coach just because he reinforces your biases. I'm not going to watch any of these insufferable talking head "essayists" no matter how right they may be about a single thing in their hours of footage, it's absolute lunacy, why in god's name would I do it for a life coach of all people. I already know how to scam people if I wanted to.

And I'm seriously wondering if you can read as I listed PearlyThings on something I really like despite that she's probably a grifter. As said, you are using "grifter" as a blanket all negative term as if someone that makes content for money (perish the thought) has nothing positive to add to a discussion. It's extremely dumb when you think about it. My take is more nuanced. Your take is "he's a life coach, therefore he's a grifter, grifter bad" and it's pretty comical as if he says nothing right or positive to say because he's a so-called "life coach" and "grifter". You didn't even try to rebut the actual content that was posted. You just posted some screen cap and made a joker society emoji as if you had something to say, when in fact you don't.

Low brow.

Lazy.

Dog shit.

[benjipwns]

My dude, not once did I say anything about his making videos being a grift or anything like that. He's a life coach, every single fucking one is yes, a grifter by the original usage. These are the credentials he uses to sell himself to the world. If he didn't make shitty videos on YouTube he'd still be a scammer.

[tiesto]

So who in this thread is in a stable relationship, anyone?

I am! Engaged since late 2020 but between the pandemic and my fiancee super busy with grad school we haven't even begun wedding planning. Looking at 2024 or 25 and considering city hall/small local ceremony/fancy dinner with close family, then a Europe or Iceland elopement. Even though we're both Italian-American (me much more than her) but don't want to bother with the generic overpriced LI wedding with terrible food, typical Billy Joel and Bon Jovi songs, a bunch of people we don't want there, and impersonal soulless catering hall atmosphere.

[team filler]

https://twitter.com/_MonsieurBlanc/status/1667023433375395840


two givers will always have 

[Nintex]

Unfortunately Pearly Things has taken a dip and although the discussions are great but the host has a myriad of problems and is obviously a grifter.

(Image removed from quote.)

 

Weird comment, as if it's supposed to be insightful and totally not circle jerk-y.

Since you're talking about grifters, I'll put it this way: life coaches are maybe peak grifter.

All advice is bad and not worth looking into because "GRIFTER!!!!" is funny especially when many men all the say the same thing. It's just lazy internet speak to label someone as anathema just  because you don't like them. This person is a "life coach" and has hundreds of videos available for free. Even if their takes are measured and balanced they're not worth looking into because "GRIFT!" You've essentially said jack shit while thinking you're smart and pointing out absolutely nothing.

I'm seriously starting to wonder how well you can read, you're the one who used the term grifter. I was using your language to communicate with you.

A life coach, any life coach, is a scam artist. This guy doesn't even list his pre-age-35 experience other than his shitty seven year "business" degree. His credentials are jack and shit and he's operating a scam based around his non-existent credentials. No, I'm not going to watch a hundred half hour long videos from a fucking life coach just because he reinforces your biases. I'm not going to watch any of these insufferable talking head "essayists" no matter how right they may be about a single thing in their hours of footage, it's absolute lunacy, why in god's name would I do it for a life coach of all people. I already know how to scam people if I wanted to. (I don't because this is morally and ethically wrong.)

Sit down and listen when a lady speaks 

https://twitter.com/amuse/status/1668795095523442690

[Snoopycat_]

At first I was too distracted by her tits too notice her eyebrows are totally out of control.

[Mupepe]

There’s a big difference between women being turned off by a man who is afraid to kiss them and speculating that women want to be “broken in” like a fucking farm animal.

Again, y’all are fucking nuts.

[james]

Booobs

[BIONIC]

There’s a big difference between women being turned off by a man who is afraid to kiss them and speculating that women want to be “broken in” like a fucking farm animal.

Again, y’all are fucking nuts.

Y’all? One person in this thread is saying that. Curious that you won’t say their name

[benjipwns]

There’s a big difference between women being turned off by a man who is afraid to kiss them and speculating that women want to be “broken in” like a fucking farm animal.

Again, y’all are fucking nuts.

Y’all? One person in this thread is saying that. Curious that you won’t say their name

Only because the rest of you haven't been broken in yet.

[james]

I never watched Brokeback mountain so i don't really get what Himu means

[remy]

i wish a woman would break me in   

[Cauliflower Of Love]

I never watched Brokeback mountain so i don't really get what Himu means

I want to rewatch this movie again, but I don't want my girl to get the wrong idea if she walks in on me watching it with my bf.

[Himu]

Understanding Female Psychology

Women want strong men. If she's not going to get a strong man she might as well look for a man that can take care of her survival in other ways, in terms of food and a roof over her head. Subconsciously women test men to see what kind of man he is.

White women, in my experience, tend to not be that big on telling you to be a man, though they crave it. Black women it seems really, really need to know what kind of man they're dealing with. Given the track record for black men it's understandable. Most of us lack D discipline and think leadership is being controlling.

She's Going To Try It

She's going to fucking try it. With black women it feels that within the first week they're do something to see your character if not outright by throwing a bunch of insults at you and if you win, you win big. One woman and I have been hitting it up. I told her next time we are going to video call so I can see her face and wonderful smile again. She agreed. Next time she refuses to do video despite our prior agreement. She said we could try video again tomorrow. I was chill but after the call I told her point blank.



I knew she was going to fucking try it. There's always some power game. So the call comes. It's audio despite her "promise" for video. She asks why I want video so much. I tell it doesn't matter why I want video so much. I do exactly what I said I would do and I hung up on her.

She called back and did video and was smiling because I put her in her fucking place in a cool manner.

Got her full on simping.



Call was cut short because I had to go somewhere but from her smile she loved how I put my foot down.

I hit her with the parry.



BITCH! (please do not call a woman a bitch to her face unless absolute necessary)

Now that i've got a full on simp. lmao Don't be afraid of women. What are they going to do? Gossip me to death?

Always be prepared because any time you start dealing with a woman and especially if she digs you and perceives you as a masculine man, she's going to start some ol bullshit. They can't help it. They live for the stuff. But so long as you internalize that she's just a fucking woman there's nothing they can do to you.

I'm dealing with so many women right now and they're very easy to predict. Treat them right and be a gentleman and lover boy 99% of time, but 1% lay that foot down. Dates are hella fun.

edit: had a great hour long video call. She's gorgeous.

[Nintex]

Understanding Female Psychology

https://twitter.com/BowesChay/status/1670043566012354561

[Snoopycat_]

One of the guys at work was telling us he was in a store looking to buy a pair of trainers. He started to chatting to an assistant and they were getting on so well he asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee sometime. She agreed so they swapped numbers and started messaging each other. He brings up the coffee date and she says aye, but she'd rather go out for a meal. She then suggests they go to one of the most expensive restaurants in Edinburgh. He says fair enough, but halfsies yeah. She loses her shit, calls him a cheap twat and tells him a real man wouldn't even think of asking her to pay for the meal.

Thoughts HIMU?

[james]

One of the guys at work was telling us he was in a store looking to buy a pair of trainers. He started to chatting to an assistant and they were getting on so well he asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee sometime. She agreed so they swapped numbers and started messaging each other. He brings up the coffee date and she says aye, but she'd rather go out for a meal. She then suggests they go to one of the most expensive restaurants in Edinburgh. He says fair enough, but halfsies yeah. She loses her shit, calls him a cheap twat and tells him a real man wouldn't even think of asking her to pay for the meal.

Thoughts HIMU?

His mistake was asking her if she wanted to go out for coffee.

A real man simply grabs the woman and throws her over his shoulder and takes her to the cafe

[Transhuman]

A real man orders his shoes online and doesn't need a woman's help putting them on.

[BIONIC]

A real doesn’t need a women period, and only fucks other men

[Snoopycat_]

One thing I noticed about many women is they're not good at the bants. When I call my Mrs a dizzy mong, it's adorable larks. When she calls me a dumb cunt. It seems more like a personal insult than jokes. It's kind of hurtful.

[Himu]

That girl who played games disappeared. I knew it. But she lost in the game playing. Want to play like a child? Get treated like one. As the great Filler says...BIIIIIIIAAAAAAAATTTTTTTCCCCCCHHHHHH! I have a feeling she's going to pop up out of nowhere for attention. She won't be getting any.



My three favorite options.

There's the ER nurse. She's stunning, she's also hooked on me. I video called her while she was working and she was eating a snack. She was eating a pack of nuts. Of course she likes nuts and she definitely wants mine. I like making her laugh. She shows her breasts too much in public for me though. It might be a case of seeing if she can cover up or maybe we're not well matched. Will have to see if she accepts my standard for modesty. I like her. She's got personality. We are dating so we will see where this goes.

There's this one Muslim woman I randomly connected with. Saw one of those attention posts women like to make. They're often bait posts to bring out simps. The post was about babies and how many we have and how much we want. We started talking in the thread and I told her to DM so we could baby plan. She DM'ed me and told me to delete my messages because people are nosy and her uncles might find out but that she still wanted to talk in private lmao. She really digs my career. She seems cool. She has already asked for my number. I love this new mentality I have, making women do a lot of the work. Me DM women? lol, they DM me. Me ask for women's phone number? No, they ask for mine.



The last one...is my favorite one and the one I'm most serious about. I had been very, very patient with her. She's Muslim. I can tell she wanted to see just how serious I was and yesterday we finally made a breakthrough. She's so refreshing. In a time when every woman is taking endless selfies, her account is private and has only one. The rest of her pics are the things she loves: her family, anime conventions, art, food she's cooked. She has a really warm heart and is the geek girl I've always wanted and from where I'm sitting is fully wife ready. We are trying to fit each other into our lives and depending on things go within the next few weeks, I might cut off all other women and focus solely on her. She has to win me over fully first, though. She wants to introduce me to her family. Things are getting really serious. Wish me luck, brehs.

[Nintex]

Reading your post anime girl seems like a good fit. Good luck bro

[Himu]

Thanks for the support and for being a bro, Nintex. Bros support each other. 

I like Anime Girl too. Something in me just wants to protect her. I don't catch feelings on women easy these days. My heart is pretty much shut and under lock and key, but she's pretty damn close to finding the right key.

I like the Social Media Girl too but I know her less and we are just getting started.

Juggling so many women I have to say I'm getting kind of tired of all the "feelings". It's pretty tiring managing it. Like I'm just stoic over here but all these women have their own issues and emotions. There's always something going on emotionally with them and it's always me that has to be a stoic, cool mother fucker surrounding it that has to problem solve shit. A part of me just goes,"Jesus why can't they get a grip on this shit?" but then I remember being on estradiol and how it just makes your emotions run away with all the damn luggage. So yeah, I'm empathetic. Maybe. A little. But when you have all these women in your life they're constantly coming to you about this or that and this is on their mind or they're dealing with this. I just have to stay cool and resolute. It does make me sympathize, though. Women are soft creatures. They need men's care and guidance. We need to be strong for them.

[Bebpo]

I was over at my new house fixing some things in the backyard and I heard a rustling and thought oh shit some big animal is in my trees. I started walking towards the door keeping an eye on the rustling leaves and then right when I'm at the door a girl hops into my backyard, looks at me and is like "uh" and I'm like "uh" and she's like "....how do I get out of here?" and I'm like "side gate that way" and she nods and runs off.

Take that everyone who says women don't just fall from trees 

In retrospect, that might've been a good opportunity to strike up a conversation like umm "are you escaping the authorities?", but maybe not and it all happened pretty fast and was awkward and thinking on my feet's never been my strong suit 

[Bebpo]

Also if you met someone that way, that would be a quality "how did you two meet" story

In fact, if you want weird looks, that would be a good BS story for anyone to use.

[Himu]

Good story.

I've given it some thought and I need to open the interracial flood gates. My allegiance to black women is a hindrance. All I need is a woman that appreciates me for me by my side that is a practicing Muslimah. Race doesn't matter. My only stipulation is that she can't be white.

[Himu]

Travel Girl wants me to meet her Wali. She's also my first pick now. Travel Girl has 4000 followers and an army of Simps and yet I'm the man she wants to meet her Wali.

Yeah nicca



Getting better and better at leading without coming off as a hard ass. Just tell her my plans and then,"what do you think, baby?" I can be the kind person I've always been but with a more of an edge. It's really nice to feel assertive and not a doormat yet not an abusive douchebag that I know I'm not.

I'm getting women down to a science. I'm treating the women like it's an art form.

I rejected Boob Girl. Women cannot handle rejection. Sad.

[benjipwns]

I'm getting women down to a science. I'm treating the women like it's an art form.

[BIONIC]

I can be the kind person I've always been

[Transhuman]

I rejected Boob Girl.

[james]

not an abusive douchebag that I know I'm not.

 

[Nintex]

Travel Girl wants me to meet her Wali. She's also my first pick now. Travel Girl has 4000 followers and an army of Simps and yet I'm the man she wants to meet her Wali.

Yeah nicca

[Himu]

I'm a short man. I'm 5'5 going on 5'6. I've always felt invisible all my life, especially since I was fat the majority of it.

I really like the look of respect people give me now. I walk with my chest out and despite being short I know I'm all that. I have that BROOKLYN SWAGGER, baby! To go from invisible all your life to being looked at and respected despite your height is the ultimate feather in a man's cap. There's nothing you can't do once you believe in yourself!



Post more books on leadership that are similar to How To Win Friends, please! Book recs! Social skills are an art form! Let's get to it!

[Himu]

I like Travel Girl's energy. she texted me at 3 am. Anime Girl ain't putting in the effort to get to know a nicca.

A new chick gave me her number. Let's see how serious she is.

Another sister came into my orbit. She said she's available any time. Let's see how much she wants it.

[james]

Please do not have sex with your sister

[Himu]

Perfect on Paper

Anime Girl seemed just my type on paper. Private, keeps to herself, few selfies, focuses on her hobbies, religious. But the more I get to know her the less I'm attracted to her personality. She's very negative. She complains a lot. She's insecure. I don't need that in a wife. I want a forward thinking wife. A woman secure with herself. A woman that has healed.

By contrast, Travel Girl was vulnerable enough to tell me she has a health condition yet this is the first she's mentioned it and she works her ass off despite it. She has strength of character. She has lots of skills to help me build a strong family unit. She's just as religious, has more positive male relationships in her life, and never complains. She also reciprocates better and is more supportive towards and excited regarding my vision for a family. She is more compliant and cooperative. Anime Girl has trauma and hasn't healed. Travel Girl reciprocates in a way I prefer more which helps create a more healthy bond.

Dating to Date versus Dating for Marriage

All of this shows the benefits of dating for marriage. Women hold the keys to dating but men hold the keys to marriage. I get lots of power and lots of say because I know what I want. Because my standards are high (reasonable, but high) I refuse nothing less. Telling a woman out the gate,"Hey, I'm looking for a wife" is also a fantastic filter. If she's not ready because she realizes you're 100% serious she will back away. She will respect the hell out of you but won't waste your time. The result is I attract higher and higher quality women that are actually wife material. You are what you seek.

The Wisdom of the Ancients

Not having sex before marriage is great. Not only does it protect the woman it creates an environment of desire. One of the worst parts of pre-marital sex is that the man gets what he wants without commitment but this also means that he can fall in love with pussy rather than a woman's character. By deliberately holding sex off before marriage, I as a man can create desire in a woman and make it build and build and build and BUILD and then deny her. It shows true strength of character, separates yourself from the sex obsessed modern male. Not that I don't want sex. I really do. But by saying no to a woman, she wants me even more. A man should ideally want a situation where the woman asks him for sex, not the opposite. Men have more power than we think. Only a fool would have sex with a woman he wouldn't marry.

Cats Cats Cats

Women really are like cats. Try to pet, she runs away. Sit there and just wait, and she'll come and sit in your lap. Attracting a woman is a matter of sparking attraction and desire. The woman will pull back to make sense of her emotions. Don't pursue but allow her some space. She'll come back for more. This will repeat as you get to know each other and until she fully trusts you. Patience wins the prize. Let's go fishing.



Guardians

Travel Girl insists that I talk to her with her Wali (guardian) on the line. In Muslim terms this is when things get serious. No woman introduces a man she's not serious about to her Wali.

[Beezy]

Only a fool would have sex with a woman he wouldn't marry.

[BIONIC]

But the more I get to know her the less I'm attracted to her personality. She's very negative. She complains a lot. She's insecure.

[james]

Anime Girl seemed just my type

my standards are high

 

[Skullfuckers Anonymous]

Only a fool would have sex with a woman he wouldn't marry.

Fellas, is it gay to have sex with a woman?

[benjipwns]

There's a lot of women deviants out there, that's why you've got to stay strong and focus on the big picture. There's no time to waste, so if they want to waste your time rather than get to the end goal, don't waste your time. Women are like pants, finance to buy what looks good first, try on later. And once you've put them on you can't take them back.

[Cauliflower Of Love]

oh you're a short guy like me.

that explains alot.

is your dick big?

if yes, then keep up whatever the fuck your doing with denigrating women.

if not, then get a better personality.

[Himu]

Nothing like a "what are you thinking?", "I really like you. It's not often that someone has that type of concern for someone they just met", "I was looking extra cute today" texts in the middle of the day. Pretty good for someone that "DeNigRaaTeS WOmeEN". Travel Girl and I have real chemistry, positive energy, reciprocate, are trying to be good Muslims, are physically attracted to each other. Seems worth investing into. I have created a good environment that lets her be in her feminine and open up. It really does begin and end with the man.

Eid Mubarak, White Knights.

[Himu]

So I had a really good halal date last night with Travel Girl and one of her Wali's (Guardians). We have a natural flow, are very attracted to each other, have a lot of similarities, we enjoy each other, and things got off on a great start. She's 3-4 inches taller than me and I don't care.

[BIONIC]

How much does a wife go for these days?

[Nintex]

So I had a really good halal date last night with Travel Girl and one of her Wali's (Guardians). We have a natural flow, are very attracted to each other, have a lot of similarities, we enjoy each other, and things got off on a great start. She's 3-4 inches taller than me and I don't care.

Tall halal queen

[Himu]

hell yeah



So far, so good. She shows great interest in me and my life. So far no signs of self centeredness. I'm greatly interested in her but playing it cool, which makes her more interested in me of course. So far, everything is in congruence and I am leading. I have had to put my foot down once so far. She respected it. Everything has been chill.

[HardcoreRetro]

How much does a wife go for these days?

It depends on the breed.

[Himu]

How much does a wife go for these days?

It depends on the breed.

I saw Bionic's mom on the wife market. I almost bought her but then she talked back.



She expressed how she was worried her son was gay and I really empathized. "I can't imagine, ma'am" as I put her back in her gate and fixed her collar.

[BIONIC]

I like how you consistently try to insult me by calling me gay like it’s 2002 and when you were the one crying in the mental health thread about why god made you enjoy sucking cock. I hope you disclosed that to your bitch (your words, not mine) and her dad.

[Cauliflower Of Love]

[team filler]

bionic is gay 

[benjipwns]

I like how you consistently try to insult me by calling me gay like it’s 2002 and when you were the one crying in the mental health thread about why god made you enjoy sucking cock. I hope you disclosed that to your bitch (your words, not mine) and her dad.

lol gay

[Himu]

I like how you consistently try to insult me by calling me gay like it’s 2002 and when you were the one crying in the mental health thread about why god made you enjoy sucking cock. I hope you disclosed that to your bitch (your words, not mine) and her dad.

Bitch? How misogynistic of you.

Let's keep it a buck: you spend all of your free time shit talking other people on other forums, with your other gay friends, you are triggered by everything that offends you, and you spend the free time shit talking someone you don't like on the internet that doesn't even care what you think much less considers your own existence outside of this space. And you're what, over 30?



By all rights you're a gigantic fa.g, and not of the gay kind, but the loser kind. Your mother is really disappointed. She told me last night after begging to do some really unsavory stuff with me last night. She weeped on my clothes, leaving a stain of salty water, about how she raised such a sundering sod of a shit pile. You are so miserable you try to put down into your mind space but I am above you in every single way. You are truly a sad individual and I'm just out here drinking alcoholic free margartitas.