I know it sounds dumb but I don't pay attention to any of Anita's detractors. Because either it's angry white men or when I watch a feminist one I sorta get the feeling that most of them are doing to Anita what she's doing to games. Picking a popular target to shit on for e cred.
I don't like Anita's work from a "I just don't like apologists" view which is my own issue. But she's actually created something, taken care to create it and cultivate it and make it popular. Which is far more than most of her detractors can say. Now, maybe there are detractors out there that do more than just shit on people's work, but honestly, I can't be arsed about it. To each their own