Are you fucking kidding me? “Misgendering doesn’t happen in real life.” Do you honestly believe this?
People here are way more misinformed than I thought.
The Transgender Law Center’s report on changing gender markers reveals that in some states it isn’t possible to change your gender on documents such as driver’s licenses and birth certificates. And in some states, you must have undergone specific surgeries in order to do so.
According to the National Center for Transgender Equality’s 2015 U.S. Trans Survey, only 11 percent of people surveyed had their gender listed on all of their government IDs. 67 percent didn’t have any ID with their affirmed gender listed.
People who have discriminatory beliefs and ideas about the trans community can use misgendering as a tactic for harassment and bullying. This is evidenced by the 2015 U.S. Trans Survey, which found that 46 percent of respondents experienced verbal harassment because of their identity, and 9 percent had been physically assaulted.
discrimination is a major issue for the trans community. The 2015 U.S. Trans Survey found these startling statistics:
33 percent of trans people surveyed had at least one experience of discrimination when seeking medical treatment.
27 percent of respondents reported some form of employment discrimination, whether it was being fired, mistreated at work, or not hired because of their identity.
77 percent of people who were out in K-12, and 24 percent of those who were out in college or vocational school, experienced mistreatment in those settings.
It’s dehumanization, plain and simple. Not only does it completely disregard someone’s identity, it’s just incredibly hurtful.
The numbers and the doctors don’t lie. The most effective treatment for the incredibly stressful and difficult to manage gender dysphoria is a successful transition and acceptance by their community.
If the dehumanization and total disregard continues, the abuse will continue, the sucides will continue. And then all of you will point to all the trans people killing them selves and say “look see? They are just crazy! Better keep making fun of them!”
Asking why misgendering is wrong is like asking why it’s wrong to call a black person a monkey.
